It also seems required that a person turn away or detach from any desires, concepts or attachments to things within the physical realm, and turn toward things like love, relationships and being of service to others, things with some eternal significance. In my case, things like love, relationships and being of service to others, gradually took on meaning, while material objects lost meaning.
The shifts I speak of in the previous paragraphs took me several years to complete. They seemed easy and straightforward when I first encountered them, but they are not. Some of my attachments and desires had to be wrenched from my grasp. The shifts have been a bit easier as I get older.