During my work with spirits I was asked to provide them with some rules of conduct which I found surprising since in my past if anyone tried to apply rules to me, I would rebel and not do them. If I am in an atmosphere of love I spontaneously do what is required of me. I am not authoritarian but I did come up with a set of rules which seemed to satisfy. 1. Love your brother/sister as yourself; 2. Love everybody and everything; 3. Do not judge; 4. Do not criticize; 5. Never condemn. These rules reflect what I understand of God’s guidance and being.