For my typical decision making process I quiet my mind through some sort of meditative activity, like gardening or sitting on a rock in the woods, ask for guidance and listen, while also considering various alternatives and seeing how they feel. I am searching for the alternative which feels “right”. For many daily tasks I do not get a strong response and I generally assume that my choice makes little difference. In some cases, like moving out west or back east, I get a strong feeling of rightness and I always make that choice. It is notable that in the two cases I mention I was told emphatically and repeatedly not to move while my choice, was to follow guidance and move.