Today is Thanksgiving and in addition to feeling my normal peace and gratitude, I am very aware of how different I am from the dominant culture. This morning while on my exercise machines I listened to NPR and they were all about socializing, feasting, black Friday, video games and buying things. I have no interest in any of that. Last weekend I had a lovely conversation with my sister-in-law about her home furnishings and some other matters. What was lovely about the conversation was not what we talked about but the feelings that were shared. I enjoyed the enjoyment I felt from her. I used to try to fit in, now I just enjoy