I use the words love, compassion, understanding and God a lot. I am aware that many people do not like the word God, which used to be me as well. As far as I can tell, the word or words you choose to use make no difference but how a person acts does. In the morning I often take a moment to close my eyes and focus on the feeling of love or an image of something or someone I feel love for. If I can carry that feeling with me during the day it changes all of my interactions during that day and also the way I feel about life in general. The changes in how others respond to my presence is dramatic. Acting out of love creates more love.