Devotion

Tomorrow I will have been on the recovery path for twenty-nine years. My main focus during that time, in addition to the foundation of staying clean and sober, has been increasing my connection with God, or whatever you wish to call that power/force.  I have systematically removed the many impediments to that connection, beginning with drugs and alcohol.  That removal process has included various other chemicals like caffeine and nicotine, distractions like T.V. , needless material possessions, and my some of my own attitudes and ideas like arrogance and intellectualism.  Having removed the impediments I am aware of, I have then made extensive use of listening through contemplation and meditation.  My devotion is total and, all in all, this system has worked very well for me.

Imagine

We live in a world of duality. We understand pleasant because there is unpleasant, night because of day, etc. It is hard to understand, but in the absolute or God place there is no dichotomy of anything, no different sexes, separateness, race or social standing. There are souls of all things and there is the source. These souls are entities in themselves, part of the source and part of each other, all at the same time. There is no individuality, as we know it since there is no separateness. There is no forgiveness since there is nothing to forgive. All are a part of an intense feeling of love and connection to all. There are differences in souls, depending on their stages of growth. There is total perfection at the same time. There is no contradiction in this situation. Things just are, as in the song “Imagine” by John Lennon.
The absolute or God place is part of each of us and we can sense it’s presence through the practice of meditation.  I go there every morning, during meditation and generally carry that knowing with me during the day.

Humility

The topic in my recovery meeting today was “humility”, something which, historically, I have had a lot of trouble achieving, but do well with now.  In the past, I tended to go back and forth between arrogance and self-loathing/criticism, neither being humility.  At present, I ask for support and guidance every morning and then do what I can during the day, generally conducting myself with love and compassion.  My present approach feels much more balanced.  In making the transition between past and present attitudes, I did not struggle or fight with myself, which would tend to make what I was trying to overcome stronger.  Rather, I chose not to act on the arrogance or self-loathing and, at the same time allowed the love and compassion to filter in.

Spiritual Blessing

I am approaching the anniversary date of the beginning of my recovery path and, as always happens, I have been reflecting on the change/growth process of the last twenty-nine years.  During that time, I have experienced numerous miraculous events, such as being jerked out of space/time to prevent a suicide or spending an afternoon communicating deeply with my father who had advanced Alzheimer’s and could not even form a cogent sentence.  I have also experienced extreme pain, suffering and numerous significant physical challenges.  All in all, it has been quite a mixture of pleasant and unpleasant events.  It is important for me to realize that the events have all been spiritual blessings that helped guide me and form the person I am today.

Love Versus Fear

I went to another movie today in which the major theme was the power of fear over one’s life attitudes and actions versus the power of love.  It is nice to note that the awareness of this dichotomy and choice seems to be increasing.  My awareness has certainly increased dramatically over time, as has my ability to make loving choices rather than reacting to and being trapped by fear.  I did not realize that many of my activities like driving myself towards “perfection”, acquisitiveness or self-criticism actually fed into my fears and made them worse, especially since owning more things and constantly striving were supposed to make me feel better.  Now, I much prefer the loving approach of being at peace, doing my best and enjoying life, not to mention the physical healing and well being that result.

Pass It On

A little over twenty-nine years ago I met a man who openly disclosed his past use of drugs and alcohol and who was willing to listen to me while I described what was going on in my own life, something I had never done before.  At that time, I decided there must have been something seriously wrong with him, otherwise he would not be willing to listen to me.  He urged me to stop drinking and get into some sort of recovery program.  Now, I am preparing to celebrate twenty-nine years of being drug and alcohol free next week.  Today I met with several young men who are early in their own recovery and, in turn, urged them to continue.  The wheel keeps turning.  To me, this is a very good illustration of the power of love and connection.

The Value Of Forgetting

I gather that many people, like myself in the past, do not fully grasp the value and wonder of being human, including experiencing all of our drama, antics, pain and suffering.  It is only by forgetting who we really are and then participating in all of the various experiences of life, that we can truly appreciate the value of oneness and love.  It is only by experiencing and truly believing in separateness that we can appreciate being connected to all of life.  For some reason, that I do not fully understand, I have been granted the ability to see and feel beyond the illusion of separateness to the reality beyond.

The Power Of Pure Love

Having experienced the love of God or the power of pure love, through meditation and near death experience, there is absolutely no question or hesitation about the willingness and desire to “pass it on”.  Passing it on is simply something I will do, regardless of the outcome.  It’s a bit hard to explain, but my desire and willingness goes beyond any thoughts of duty or wanting to “save the world”, to something like a pre-ordained fact of my existence.  I also have no desire to be the least bit pushy or proselytizing about it.  I will demonstrate it, live it and talk about it when asked.

Limits

Either consciously or subconsciously, I continually try to put limits on my own abilities and other aspects of my life.  The most obvious limits are my own abilities as far as physical healing, the use of the mind-body connection and the power of love/God in my life.  Originally, being a highly trained scientist, I did not believe or use things like the mind-body connection at all, thus limiting myself.  I have now gone well beyond those limits, and help others to do so as well.  Primarily using meditation, I keep exploring the limits I now impose on myself and try to go beyond them.  In most instances, I do not know what those limits are, I just know they are there.

Buddha Nature

All around me I see clear evidence of the Christlike, loving, Buddha nature present in each one of us.  Publically, it is most apparent in people’s response after some sort of disaster strikes and more privately it is quite apparent daily within the recovery meetings I attend or just generally in response to a person or animal in need.  Personally, I have experienced both my selfish, self-centered side and the Christlike, loving, Buddha nature side, which is also much more enjoyable, feels stronger and truer.  The Christlike, loving, Buddha nature side is sometimes seen as weak, which it is not.  The strength within that side is long lasting and far reaching, as opposed to the temporal strength of self-centered actions.