This website is about the value of love, spirituality, the potential of the mind-body connection and the connection with all things. These are my daily thoughts about my life, my feelings, and my spiritual journey. I post these "Daily Journals" on a regular basis, so please come back often to read my latest posting.
Saturday, January 18, 2020
Projection
I notice some time ago that when I thought about someone I would be acutely aware of the things they were not doing for their own lives or recovery, then when I was with the same person I felt only love for them and had only constructive thoughts which depended on their interests, not mine. I would let them know if I saw a problem only if they asked. In other words, I “set the bar” according to them. Today I realized that my thoughts of them were purely a projection of thoughts of myself, that I set that bar high for me — not them.