People frequently speak of love as existing between individuals in a relationship, like in a family, a friendship or romantically and resulting in an increased commitment to each other. It can be more than that. As I learned in my N.D.E., love can also be a more general approach to all of life situations. In that case, love is a force or power that is capable of changing people’s attitudes and actions. For example, during my N.D.E. I was given a choice between staying dead, which felt wonderful, peaceful, loving and free or returning to earthly existence and being of service. I chose to come back purely because of the love I felt and a desire to align myself with that feeling. I now have the feeling of love towards all people, places and things which certainly changes my behavior and I spread that love as much as I can.