I watched a movie called “Bless Me, Ultima” and in it the woman, Ultima, is a curandera or medicine woman. I was struck by the realistic portrayal of love within the movie. The love depicted was the love for our fellow men and all living things rather than the frilly, often transient, romantic love usually depicted in movies. In the movie, she is very loving, though not always popular and the love shown in the movie is sometimes hard. Ultima goes out of her way to be of service to others, and always acts lovingly, even when shunned. Her love in the movie came from her strong belief in God and knowing that we are connected to everything and everyone.
In my own life I have found much the same, though right now I am surrounded by overwhelming approval and support, which is wonderful. Always feeling and living within the selfless love that comes from God is not easy or frilly, it requires a strong commitment, focus and constant maintenance. The result is a very fulfilling life that touches many people, well worth it.